Sunday, March 8, 2009

Journal Nightmare

Well, I'm at it again with starting almost every journal entry, "Wow! It's been a long time since we've last talked. Let's get reintroduced...." A lot of things have happened and I mean a lot!

First off, Dan's dad has been diagnosed with colon cancer. He's been in radiation and will be doing chemotherapy in the next few months. His doctors look hopeful because it is the non-growing kind (I can't seem to remember which one is which). They will be doing surgery after the chemo treatments and that will be probably be in the late summer. LeRoy is doing good. He's still out painting here and there and I think him and dear Debbie are still planning their anniversary Alaskan cruise in the summer.

Daradie had her 5th birthday. She wanted a princess tea party and that's what she got. All her friends came dressed up in their best. We had a treasure hunt for nail polish, princess stickers, hair clips and some other girly things. I served appetizers, cupcakes, chips and chocolate milkshakes with LOTS of Reddiwhip and pink sprinkles. Every girl gave her a Barbie of some sort. So, we now have 11 Barbies strewn throughout the house. I forced them to do the treasure hunt. The girls just wanted to play in Daradie's room with the Barbie's. It was cute to see all the girls in their dresses playing dress-up with their dolls. It ended up being an extremely easy party. On the way down the stairs, I heard Daradie say to one of her friends, "Isn't this the best party ever!" Love you girl!

We'll continue discussing Daradie for a bit. She's been struggling in the "time management" area. I know she's five. But she's cutting into my schedule and making me late for appointments, etc. I got tired of the yelling and she's not old enough to leave behind. I put a sticky note next to her digital clock of when my car was picking up carpool for preschool. During breakfast (in which she has at least 1 hour of preparation time for preschool) I mentioned to her my plan. Never yelled, bribed or threatened. Eight fifty-five rolled around and dear Daradie was still downstairs playing Barbie (should not be a huge surprise for you all). "Gotta go. Preschool time. See how the clocks are matching. Get your coat." I never saw that girl move so fast trying to pull clothes out of her drawers. Too bad. I hauled her out to the car kicking and screaming. "Mom! I don't want a cavity! I didn't brush my teeth! Everyone is going to laugh at me! Mom...." I sent her to school in her pajamas, serious case of bedhead, cream cheese on her face and a note to her teacher explaining her situation. She'll thank me when she's 23 and early for her first official job interview or at 16 to get her driver's permit. Notice the picture. This is her the next day with 15 minutes to spare. The plan worked and that was almost 3 weeks ago. Good mom moment.

Koen. Seriously "pooped out" during all this potty training business. I sent him upstairs to change into a dry pull-up and couldn't figure out why I hadn't seen him for awhile. He fell asleep on the floor in front of the bathroom door. But he's been successful and loves to show EVERYONE his Batman underwear.We've got our house 100% repainted and closets and garage cleaned out and and even repainted. That's how it goes, right? Get the house all organized to sell it. We don't know if we're insane or smart. We are about ready to start building and as soon as the house sells, we'll start digging the hole. It's been 2 years of planning and discussing. Dan is taking care of the majority of exterior things (my only requirement/dream is to have something red on the front porch) and I've handled most of the floor plan. Like I said, we're either insane due to unpredictable job income or smart to take advantage of the record low interest rates. What to do? What to do? And yes, we'll be renters again.

3 comments:

williamswildbunch said...

Angilee,
Cute blog entry. I can't believe your that ready to get started on your house. Good luck with that. Hope you enjoy being renters as much as we did. I can't believe that time tactic worked so well with Daradie. When I tried something like that with Kamree, it only worked for about 2 days and then we were back to the yelling again. I think those two are a lot alike.

r & k said...

holy cow! i had to read your post a few times to get it straight - i thought you said dan had cancer! i was like "what the heck?! what kind of post is this?!" sooo, sorry to hear about his dad - that is rough! good luck to him.
thanks for the update - been wondering about you guys . . . love your kid stories' - they are classic. k-thanks-bye

The Haley Family said...

That is so exciting you are building, yeah! Someday we'll live on some acreage...but NOT in Nebraska! I'll wait until this state is no longer my residence! :)

Sorry to hear about Dan's dad! The Alaska trip sounds fun!

I have done a similar thing with Drew and time. Today I was pulling out of the driveway and starting to drive down the street-without him-when he came running out with shoes and coat in hand, through the snow!